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Why Last Long During Sex When My Girlfriend Doesn’t Care?
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Some guys will take quite a unique attitude when it comes to premature ejaculation. The attitude usually goes something like this:

Why should I last long during sex when my girlfriend doesn’t even care? I mean she never complains about it and I always stimulate her in other ways anyway. Plus she prefers oral sex over regular sex. I can give her oral sex, and then have regular sex and not have to worry about if I last long during sex. I think it’s better this way since I don’t have to struggle to last and can just ejaculate after a minute or so.

This is an interesting take in rationalizing premature ejaculation. It even sounds like it might make sense, right? I mean it appears as his partner is enjoying sex. It’s not like he is ignoring her needs, and matter of fact it seems like he is providing her with her desired pleasures. And of course he is getting off himself in a timely one or two minute fashion. Everything seems fine, right?

Wrong.

There are many things wrong with the above statement. Let’s go through why this is simply the lazy man’s excuse for living with premature ejaculation and not taking actions to find solutions.
1. First of all, his girlfriend likely isn’t complaining for the typical reasons. She may not want to bring up the issue due to embarrassment. Many women don’t want to “rock the boat” with this issue so they remain silent.
2. Many women have actually never experienced earth shattering orgasms (or true orgasms at all) through standard sex! This is very common and the reason why? You guessed it. The man’s inability to last long during sex. This may very likely be the case here. I guarantee if this woman could experience the kind of long lasting sex that results in earth shattering orgasms, she would in fact speak up and say, “look dude, you need to teach yourself to last long during sex pronto!”
3. You (the boyfriend) are actually having low level sex and you don’t even know it. Ejaculating after only a minute or two is not experiencing true sexual excitement. For many guys that’s actually considered a subpar orgasm. So this guy is only having mediocre sex at best. He says he “doesn’t have to struggle” to hold out long enough during sex but he has no clue that it’s “the struggle” (which doesn’t have to be a struggle) which makes your orgasm ten times stronger.
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Penis Pain After Oral Sex: Urethritis?

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Being on the receiving end of some well-orchestrated oral sex is a dream for just about every man, and why not? He gets maximum pleasure from minimum (as in, zero) effort. And for guys who are concerned about penis health, oral sex tends to be much safer than vaginal sex. But a guy might still develop penis pain afterward, and if he does it may be a reminder that there are risks of spreading infection from oral sex. For example, the source of that penis pain could be urethritis.

Urethritis

What is urethritis? Simply put, it just means that the urethra – the tube that connects the bladder to the penis and the serves as the “escape valve” for urine – has developed an inflammation. Most cases of urethritis are caused by bacteria; in some cases they come about due to sexual activity. In such cases, they are considered an STI – and such would be the case if a man contracted urethritis from a partner giving him oral sex.

In some cases, a guy can have urethritis with no symptoms. More frequently, however, a guy experiences any of a number of symptoms, including:

– A discharge (often yellow to brown, and sometimes accompanied by blood) while urinating;

– A burning sensation when urinating, most often centralized near the tip of the penis;

– Itchiness in the penis (more so than usual);

– Heaviness in the balls.

Often the discomfort from urination can produce penis pain that is significant and intense.

Oral sex connection

As mentioned, bacteria are the cause of urethritis. Until 2006, oral sex was not considered a viable method of urethritis transmission, but an article in the Journal of Infectious Diseases changed that. This article was based on a study of 636 men. Out of those 636, 307 of them did not have urethritis; 329 did, and it was determined that the urethritis was not related to gonorrhea (a common co-morbidity).

The doctors then looked into the differences between the two. They found that some of the men with urethritis had contracted it from oral sex – and that it developed from bacteria that are fairly commonly found in the mouth but that are not as commonly associated with urethritis.

Interestingly, it does not seem to be the case that bacteria passed on during cunnilingus causes urethritis in women, although the reasons for this are unclear.

Prevention

Since the bacteria involved are common ones not associated with sexual activity, it’s difficult to determine how to prevent transmission (other than through oral sex abstinence, of course). Wearing a condom when receiving oral sex is one way, however.

In the absence of preventive measures, men may just need to be more aware of the risk of contracting urethritis from oral sex and undergo frequent testing – and definitely get tested if they experience penis pain at any time after receiving oral sex. (It may take some days for the inflammation to make itself felt.)

Oral sex can result in some penis pain for reasons other than urethritis, of course. If there is too much “tooth action” or if the penis becomes sore from overuse, soothing relief may be obtained from application of a first level penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Penis skin often feels raw after lengthy or aggressive sex, so using a crème with a combination of moisturizing superstars (think Shea butter and vitamin E) can provide the rehydration that the skin desires. It also helps if the crème contains alpha lipoic acid, a potent antioxidant that battles the free radicals that cause oxidative stress to sensitive penis cells. And a crème that contains a range of vitamins (A, B5, C, and D) is well positioned to boost overall penis health.

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Great Sex Tips for Couples
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Looking for some ideas to spice up your sex life? Here are five super sex tips for things to try with your partner that will be sure to get the passion flowing.
1. Visit a swingers club. Bet you didn’t think we’d throw this one in first. The fact is, swingers clubs are not intimidating places at all and you certainly don’t need to do anything if you don’t want to. There also won’t be rampant sex in your face everywhere either; most have a bar or relaxation area, with the ‘action’ taking place out of sight. You’ll meet some friendly people and, at the very least, it will give yo some new things to talk about in the bedroom at home!
2. Try outdoor sex. A secluded beach or forest can be a great place for fun sex. Just take a blanket or two and find a place where you won’t be disturbed, although the thought of being ‘discovered’ can give an added thrill to the adventure.
3. Make your next holiday ‘clothing optional’. Resorts with nude beaches are growing in popularity, and for good reason. They can really add some sensual flavour to your holiday in the sun. Most are couples-only (or at least adults-only) so you don’t need to worry about gawking teenagers or strange men making you feel uncomfortable. Many people, once they have tried nude bathing, never go back to wearing swimsuits!
4. Watch an erotic movie together. I don’t mean porn, but the ‘soft’ porn erotica you can rent from the local movie library. There are some fantastically sexy movies which unfortunately have become rather overlooked since the flood of hard core pornography on the internet.
5. Talk through your fantasies when you make love. While you’re already aroused during sex is a great time to cast your inhibitions aside completely and tell your lover your deepest sexual fantasies. Every healthy adult with an active sex life has fantasies, so it’s nothing to be ashamed about. Even if you’re a bit shy, you might be surprised how positively your lover responds and, who knows, it could be the start of some new sexual adventures for you both to explore together.
Really exploring the boundaries of your sexual relationship with your lover can do a great deal to strengthen the loving bond between you. Push beyond your comfort zone a little and you never know, it might open up a whole new world of excitement

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Druids and Sex – What Can We Learn From Them?

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If you think the druids can’t teach you much about enhancing your sex life – Think again!

Although Druids are considered pagan by the Christian Church, many of their customs have been introduced into our society today.

The druids contribution to sex and free love is under estimated and this is what this article is all about.

The entire Christian calendar is full of Druidic holidays and this is an ideal place to start in our pursuit of druid sexuality.

There were two times of the year that specifically apply to this essay. The first is Samhuinn, from October 31st to November 2nd, and the second is Beltane on May the 1st.

Sexual Activity of Druids

Samhuinn was a time where for three days, all order was allowed to break down, and there was as you would expect, uninhibited sexual activity.

For the Beltane festival, it was a time for the mating of animals and the fertility of young women.

The evenings were lit up by bonfires, wild music played, drink flowed and free-flowing spirits danced with gay abandon.

The dance and drink made the desire for sexual union between couples almost irresistible.

To discover what was actually practiced, we must look what the early Church fathers were forbidding.

In the prohibitions we discover the practices that took place.

For the first missionaries, who were for the most part, still Jewish, there was (and still is for all Orthodox Jews) one sexual position; the “missionary”.

The two positions you will find below, were strictly forbidden, but in truth, normal in every way and are practiced by many couples today.

During the Samhuinn there was no time for orderly and relaxed sexual encounters.

Sexual encounters proceeded quickly amongst the revellers, fueled by drink and the mood of sexual liberation.

Here are some examples of favoured druid sexual positions:

“As Does the Deer”

This was the basic and favorite Druid position for sex.

The woman would bend over and hold on to some object to support her during the man’s thrusting. She would spread her legs wide apart, and the man would remove the clothing only to the side of the genital area.

With his own feet slightly spread apart (for balance,hard after a few drinks!)he would then enter her from the rear, and begin thrusting.

He would further bend over himself, across and on top of the woman’s back, and have his hands free to fondle her breast and/or clitoris.

The quick thrusting would last about 10 to 12 minutes, and the man would finish quickly.

Time was at a premium, and this is perhaps the original “quickie” position.

This is an exciting and effective position, and useful in cramped spaces, today many people use it in such places as an elevator or restroom, or even out in the open,which was practiced by the Druids at this time of “un-rule” or anarchy.

“Sacrifice at the Altar”

It seems the Church fathers especially found this position offensive. Perhaps the nature of it, or the name.

However, when examined from a serological and physiological point of view, it is quite effective. It is very stimulating for the clitoral area, the G-spot and AFE Zone.

The woman is placed on her back on a table or some structure that allows the man to stand in front of her, in position. The woman’s legs are raised half way to her chest, no more, and the man can hold on to her calfs, or under her knees.

The man then penetrates her, and she raises her buttocks slightly to accommodate him for maximum penetration.

Thrusting should be slow and rhythmical, and it will soon become obvious of the woman’s pleasure with this sexual position.

The man also will find he can delay his climax with this position, and the average time for copulation can be over 20 minutes, and perhaps longer.

The man has a wonderful and explicit view of the woman’s genital area, and she, if raising her neck slightly (and is so interested) can also see her partners actions.

This may be performed at home on a high bed, or table, if some padding (a blanket perhaps) is used for the woman’s comfort.

It has been reported that some models of automobiles afford the possibility as well, using the hood (engine cover) in place of a table, rock or boulder.

The druids were an extremely sexual people, with few inhibitions and the positions above (if you have not tried them) are sure to enhance your sex life and that of your partner.

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Penis Rash Can Come From Sex Toys

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From penis rings to dildos, sex toys are more and more commonly found in bedrooms of consenting adults. And while sex toys are more historically associated with females, the fact is that more and more males are growing comfortable with incorporating toy play into their sex lives – often with great results. In general, sex toys don’t come with penis health concerns, but there are some instances where a penis health issue may inadvertently arise. For example, sometimes using sex toys might result in a penis rash showing up unexpectedly.

Sex toys

People have been using sex toys for generations. Ancient Greece and Egypt, for example, include references to objects which would be recognized today as dildos. People have used phallic-shaped food, such as zucchinis, as “natural” dildos, and carved-out melons have been used by enterprising men as vagina substitutes for eons.

But today, sex toys generally refer to objects manufactured specifically for use in sexual situations, whether solo or partner-based, generally to enhance pleasure. (For some, that pleasure is enhanced through infliction of some degrees of pain, but the ultimate goal is pleasurable, however an individual may define it.)

Penis rash

In general, a penis rash (like most skin rashes) occurs because the penis skin has come into contact with some sort of allergic factor. Theoretically, the make-up of any individual could be such that he or she could be allergic to just about anything. However, the objects we will be discussing are those which are somewhat more likely than others to bring about a penis rash reaction. It’s important to note, of course, that just because some people may be allergic to something doesn’t mean everyone is.

With that in mind, here are some sex toys which in some instances could produce a penis rash in some men:

– Metal penis rings or balls stretchers. Penis rings are intended to tightly encircle the penis (or penis and balls) in such a way that blood is encouraged to fill the penis, thereby enhancing a man’s erection. Balls stretchers are worn tightly around the top of the balls so that the balls stretch out; sometimes weights are used to increase the stretching. Rings and stretchers can be made of several different materials, including metal – and in some instances, that can be problematic. A surprising number of people are allergic to nickel, and it can cause a rash in areas in which it comes into contact. Many metal products include nickel in their mixture – so a penis rash occurring after wearing a metal ring or stretchers may be due to the presence of nickel.

– Vagina substitutes. Vagina substitutes come in all different forms, but they are generally a hollowed out tube of some sort which has been lined with a soft material. An erect penis thrusts in and out of the tube, usually resulting in ejaculation. If the toy is thoroughly cleaned after each use, there is little risk of a rash – but if not, a penis rash is quite likely. The risk increases if a man does not clean it thoroughly after another man has used it. (Sharing sex toys is risky, and most should be sterilized before being shared.)

– Condom. Not a sex toy, but some men do have an allergy to latex – meaning that they must use non-latex condoms in order to be safe from both STIs and from a potential penis rash!

A penis rash from sex toys may respond to use of a superior penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Rashes often need extra moisturization, so using a crème with both a high end emollient (such as shea butter) and a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E) is best. In addition, the selected crème should include alpha lipoic acid. A potent antioxidant, alpha lipoic acid protects the skin from the ravages caused by excess free radicals.

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The Truth Behind People Who Buy Sex Dolls

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It might surprise you, but people who buy love or sex dolls aren’t necessarily creeps or perverts. I can tell you from first-hand experience because my own sex doll shop is one of the few who offers a concept that isn’t about having sex with a love doll, but about using them to create the most beautiful, erotic art.

Love dolls can assume many poses and it’s a lot of fun to play dress up with them and see them wearing the outfits of your choice. Some of my customers can spend hours taking pictures of their favorite dolls simply because they can assume so many poses and because you can dress them any way you like.

I believe that the erotic art (pictures/videos) made with the help of these dolls is a tribute to the female form. How beautiful is the female form.. It’s something to admire and eternalize.

It’s very hard to find a stunning female that is willing to try on hundreds of different outfits.. Who is willing to assume many kind of poses and who at the same time doesn’t mind that you take pictures. Perhaps you even want to edit/Photoshop the pictures and add them to your personal collection or even share them online. Try getting permission from a real women to do stuff like that. It’s not easy to get this kind of permission and can even hurt a woman’s reputation if you do.

With that said, these love dolls are perfect for making art that is meant as a tribute to the female form. People who buy love dolls from me are usually civilized, normal people who have passion for erotic art, the female form, beauty and sexy clothing. The dolls I sell to them allow them to enjoy their hobby in a constructive way.

This one time a buyer approached me and asked me if I could help him decorate his new house. He recently retired and his wife had passed away a few years earlier. He purchased a big house, but he was going to live there all by himself. He felt that some love dolls might make him feel less lonely in his new home and that their beauty would bring him joy. It worked.. He told me that they are more beautiful than he could have ever imagined and that he actually grew fund of them. Since he was retired and because he was alone, he didn’t have that much to do until he took on this new hobby. He started making pictures of his dolls and found an online community where people tell stories about their dolls and share pictures. Last time I spoke to him he made it clear to me that the dolls have really brought him a lot of joy and even some new friends.

The point that I’m trying to make is that these dolls can enrich your life and can be used for wonderful things, not just for sex. I also believe we derive joy from things that we are passionate about. If you have passion for the female form, beauty and photography then surely these kind of dolls will bring you a lot of joy not just pleasure.

When it comes to pleasure. A love doll really can be a solution for people who simply (for specific reasons) can’t find a romantic partner or who don’t want to cheat, but still want to spice up their sex life.

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How to Turn a Girl Into a Sex Machine Extremely Quick – 1 Proven Way to Make Her Wild in Bed

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Who else wants to learn how to turn their girl into a an amazing sex machine in the sack? If you are anything like the vast majority of men who read our articles, the simple truth is that you love nothing more than a woman who goes wild in bed, right? It’s true… and just about every man who we’ve ever talked to admits that the biggest aphrodisiac for amazing sex is a girl who really gets into the erotic experience.

But with so many women admitting to NOT being that into intimacy with their male partners, how can you make sure that yours isn’t one of them?

Easy! We’ve identified about 10 or 11 ways to accelerate a girls desire, and accentuate her ability to orgasm to boot…and we’re going to share one of the most important ones with you below:

Tip #1: The Amazing Art of Erotic Exploration

Want to know what women really prefer when it comes to passion? A different erotic experience each and every time you make love! Sound far fetched? It shouldn’t be…as the biggest obstacle most men face when it comes to pleasuring their girl is boredom in bed. Yes, too much of the same thing is NEVER good for her, and unfortunately, when it comes to men and sex, the same old, same old is far more than a saying..:-) If you want to keep her on the erotic edge at all times, you’ve got to learn to mix it up and explore different “avenues” of keeping her satisfied, satiated, and most importantly, INTERESTED in exploring intimacy again with you the next night. The sad truth is that many women admit to preferring shopping for shoes over having sex with their husband, lover or boyfriend, and until you learn how to bring (and keep) her at the erotic edge, she’ll never be the “maniac” in bed….or about you really at all, that you really want her to become.

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