One of many hardest issues about male chastity is definitely getting your man to cease himself from cumming.
John, my husband and I, have discovered a easy means to do that.
First comes the technique, after which there’s are particular techniques inside the technique.
The technique is simple: he is discovered it is simpler for him to not have an orgasm when he imagines it as a ‘cliff’ he will go over.
And as soon as he is aware of the place that ‘edge’ is, then it is a lot simpler to again away from it (clearly); nevertheless it’s additionally simpler then to keep away from with subsequent edging.
That is the actually vital factor as a result of it means we are able to make love and play for a very long time with out having to fret about him being too excited to hold on with out having an orgasm.
The trick (he says) is understanding how one can discover the sting, recognise it when it is approaching and never go flying over it in his enthusiasm.
So now we come to the orgasm denial techniques.
Keep in mind: the purpose of ‘no return’ is the sting.
In order he is approaching it he mentally maps his orgasm and the way far he’s from it onto a path to the sting of the cliff. He actually sees this path in his thoughts’s eye and imagines himself strolling alongside it.
Now, if you are going to ask me precisely how he does this, I am unable to reply as a result of I am not in his head.
However that is how he describes it to me and I can say two issues for certain:
- It takes follow. And also you’re higher erring on the facet of ‘security’.
- It really works. The possibilities of John cumming when he is not speculated to are vanishingly small now. That is A Good Factor, for 2 causes: first, we are able to have much more enjoyable and do extra issues with out worrying; and secondly, it makes my teasing of him far more worthwhile as a result of I can push him additional.
- Since we transitioned right into a full female-led relationship… John has the added incentive of understanding I will punish him if he cums with out my permission – both a tough caning on the bench I had him construct for the aim, or a complete evening kneeling by the mattress restrained to the kneeling-post I additionally had him make, whereas I sleep.
By working as a workforce, and with that added incentive, it is attainable for me to take him to that edge and again over and over earlier than calling it a day.
And like something, the extra you do it, the higher at it you are going to get.
Do not make the error of pondering all and even many of the enjoyable of chastity is to be present in tease and denial, as a result of should you’re not serving her wishes and worshipping her physique then you definately’re lacking out on a number of the most beautiful torture you possibly can think about.
My favorite quickly turned for him to make use of a strapon — it is virtually pretty much as good as the actual factor, and positively adequate for long run orgasm denial. He would not get fairly the identical quantity of teasing or edging as he does after I permit him to make like to me, and there’s nearly zero probability of him cumming with out my permission (as a result of then I might need to punish him, in fact).
Backside line: your man does not must orgasm.
He could need to, and there are causes you would possibly generally permit it (and a few fiendish methods of doing it for him), however when it comes right down to it he would not want to orgasm, ever.
That is what John and I are aiming for, and we’re each extraordinarily enthusiastic about the entire thing.
No date but, however we’re closing in on just a few probables.
One factor to watch out of is to not have too-high expectations and suppose you are each going to get it proper first time. We have been within the chastity way of life now for 13 years, and John gave me his oath of obedience again in April 2019, so it takes follow and endurance.
Do not fall for the hype and silliness you’ve got little question already come throughout on the Web. If it sounds unreal, it in all probability is.
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